Being faithful

I read The Star Sunday and the article from it really caught my attention. It was about triangle relationship,being faithful in your marriage. It caught my attention and I really read through everything because it is basically part of my life. I don't want to elaborate much about my life and started to run off from the topic. But there is a question I ponder, why every man is not trust able enough?sorry,not all men are like that,but I heard before a statement, it is natural for a husband to cheat on his wife but in the end they will still end up go back to home and sleeping next to you.So you can just shut one eye and open another one eye (?) another question, why some men tend to cheat on their wife with other woman while a woman less likely will do the same? It that a natural behaviour or their natural instinct?

I seldom really hear a married woman, a wife , a mother will really be unfaithful toward their husband. I mean a normal woman,mother (not the rich tai tais) is less likely to cheat.It is because she has the burden of taking care her own child? I heard many different version of this kind of story. Some will just weep and cry till tears wash their face,some will file for a divorce,some will castrate their husband and turn them to an eunuch (LOL?) and the most common, turn into blind eye.

But it is so sickening to hear a girl molested or raped by the step father and this keep traumatizing the victim again and again because the mother is not willing to report this to the police just for the sake to keep the man whom a rapist,molester of her own daughter away from the bars. It is the female is so vulnerable that we always become the disadventagous one or just simply because there are some of us just give up and give and in the end we are receiving sort of treatments we do not deserve to have?

"To give it up is to accept your fate

To give it up is to create peace

to give it up is to gain the upper hand,

and to give it up is to have it all"

quoted from novel "Empress Orchid" by Anchee Min

quite true.i agree but i don't tolerate this.

Back to School

Hello to every fellow netizen out there :)

I am obviously late for any christmas and new year celebration's entries.I admit I'm a boring uninteresting geek that stayed at home,watched tv like these two days meant nothing to me.(sounds like a loser) I'm more like a loser when me,edelweiss wong (yes call me that) are going back to school on coming 4th January 2010. Yes,school you didn't hear wrongly. I am carrying a backpack,wearing school uniform back to school and yes,I'm the upper 6 this year and also the senior of the school. This means I'm taking my STPM examination this year.OH.NO.

Thereby,I prepared some resolutions for myself of year 2010 :)

1. Develop good study habit (I admit I always study last minute,burn midnight oil and therefore in this year I'm going to put an end for it *determined)

2. Improving and keep polishing my flute skill (thank you to yoong wai)

3.Stop giving myself excuses.

4.In best state of health

5.Safe and sound

Hurm...I think I will leave these here first,I will add more if I can think of anything :)

Cheers,
Evelynn Edelweiss Wong (hah)

random dum dee dum

hello to every netizen out there!

Supposed to write this entries week ago since I already uploaded every picture but can't post this because I have nothing to write :P talking about nothing to write,I read newspaper and some articles really caught my attention,negatively-not a good news. I am quite saddened by the found of a dead female teenagers,age 11-13 that is now still under the process identifying her identity."believed could have been sexually assaulted prior to be strangled.There were injuries on her private parts" wtf. :( Why are all these cases keep happening in our society?? When our nation were in shock to see the black and white pictures of dead nurin jazlin jazimin's picture in every head front of newspaper and few months later on jan 9,we got the news of missing five year old Sharlinie,that had yet still not be found.

who should we point fingers to? the authority,the parents,the society,the media or the sick psychopathic paedophile that roams in our society? talk about the parents,i mean not all parents are careless and reckless but from what i see in my neighbourhood,few assumptions can be made from my observations. not trying to being a racist here, but i believe some of us who are driving might have had already encountered the same thing. whose kid on the road that caused to brake suddenly while we already driving in the slow speed.whose kid that ride their bicycle on the road like the road belonged to their father like that. and whose young kid that can be allowed to play around without any adult around with them? think again.

those ignorant parents and brat can be more and less give the chances for these abductors to act. have we ever heard a child been abducted broad day light while their parents on their side? okay,fine you said they have no choice because they need to work to make a living. hire a caretaker,send them to nursery or finish your work to accompany them then! do you ever spent your time to educate them to stay away from stranger or not to leave without an adult?

go to hell you ignorant mad chauvinist. we should change our mindset in the first place because what we thought are always the root that caused our action. so,please respect the female and the children.

Drama

Dear pokie bloggie,

sorry I have had neglected you for quite some time.actually,not quite long only la,just just one month only..*whacked by others* okay,i know im not a continuous avid enthusiast blogger (malu betul) and since from I grow up till now, I can't keep a diary updated continuously for a period of one month. I will become very passionate in writing my diary just for one to two weeks then later on it will soon be forgotten. =_=" I know this kind of atitude is not really good but i will try my best to update my blog regularly so that my friends that I know will get updated with me :)

I know some of you out there read my bloggg,but I guess not many since im not fofuler at all with ordinary looks but everyone,I have a kind and beautiful heart.hah. *perasan-ing. some may passed by at my blog and read my entries and after that snorted for thinking i must miserably waiting for any readers to read my blog.frankly,mind you,I am NOT of that all. I wont make myself looked like an idiot seeking for attention exposing my cleavage,bundles of cam-whores picture while no one bothers to read my blog at all -_-..meaningless.*whistle

okey,celebrated jun's birthday with just a simple trip to sunway pyramid,got her a bag and finally have had our decent breakfast-lunch at Popeye,the fast food -_-..i know it was indecent and boring birthday celebration we had,but this was all we can pulled out in the last minute with limited of time and participants. :( blame me not!!

I shrinked the picture so that my face will look thinner.HAHA.wtf T_T


while we were busy chatting with each other,a guy claimed himself as the social worker approached us for the donation to the charity. I can't recall every word he said but this is the rough idea.

guy A : hello,may you know spare some time to hear what im going to say?

me:sure.

guy : mandarin or english?

me:*mumbling. english,go ahead.

guy : sorry??

me:ENGLISH,GO AHEAD

guy: Oh,hello.I'm from XX welfare and we r doing an event where you just need to donate rm10 to feed two children for two days. Plus,you will be given a car sticker's as token appreciation from us for the donation *monotonously,speed thunder speech in one breath.GREATT

me: *speechless with mouth wide open trying to digest every word he said

xin : oh,this? i have one.the panda one.

guy: sorry,you have it?the panda?oh? where'd you get it ? same charity event?

xin : yeahh..just the same,my car have oneeeeee (damn you)

guy :*surprised*

erene: oh?this is your first day,perharps? *giggle gigles

guy : *without answering erene's question and keep persuading us to donate when in the fact,obviously we are not really into what he is talking about to the point....

me:sorry,but i'm not really interested.....

guy : not interested?you mean you are not interested to feed the child? *agressively

me:*held back. no,i prefer something like unicef,etc etc and im not planning to get any sticker

guy: but unicef is more international,you know (yeahhh,right.read newspaper and do some research,mind you) this is local one. WELL I THINK YOU ARE JUST NOT UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING SORRY FOR YOUR TIME (purposely caps lock this sentence to emphasize the rudeness he showed me)

Oh hello mister,how would you expect me to understand when your opening speech is so great like you memorized every single word even xin wondered she heard the same thing from pervious donation she did. It was my first time to hear things like this and yours are crap you know? you said im some meanie like that when i said im uninterested to donate rm10.oh i know you are a saint.you did this without profit,comission from every sticker you sold (which is also the main reason i never donate because this is how my money being used for) you even take out rm10 every day to feed 2 children for two days. if yes,let me salute you. if no,don't accuse other people like that and mind you,as a consumer myself,I HAVE EVERY SINGLE RIGHT TO SPEND EVERY SINGLE CENT I HAVE! AND NOW,YOU CAUSED THE DONATION TO GO OFF AND CAUSED TWO CHILDREN TO STARVE FOR TWO DAYS WHILE YOU ENJOYING CHASING OFF CUSTOMERS!~*CHEERS.

okey,i shouldn't jump into conclusion that fast,you are just frustrated because you can't sell off every single sticker with such attitude of yours,so you splashed all the shit to me :( hope that cools you head off

two beauties

can you imagine we took this photo at the back drop of a stage

NICE :)


Emotional drama should comes with
commercial breaks.HAHAHAHAHA

my latest obsession. my cousin brotherrrrr,cuttieeeeee pie,honey sugar babe

QUTE!
ok,back to the pictures.

the oh-not-so-cute-of-me

ke xin - thanks for the ride ;D

erene- the stich lover


xin


peace to stich ;)

Last but not least,drama should comes with unforgettable sweet ending.

Jeng jeng jeng

❤

Will you marry me? *erene kneeled down with empty box
yes,yes!!even with no flowers and only empty box,yes!!
Ding ding dong dong *church's bell ringing

THE END

P/S: Just found out that Mattel(the barbie) is making out barbie from the character of twilight's series,Edward Cullen,Isabella 'Bella' Swan and Jacob Black (wow,i remebered their name @@") and this is what I found from the goggle. Don't stare at me like that,i'm not going to buy one,haha. those obsessive fans cant wait to get edward and jacob. i think the production quantity for edward must be obviously more than the other two. imagine fans will buy edward and jacob and later on form their own version of edward and jacob's team. They may buy bella but will torture and spank her due to jealousy. @@" then they will pretend to be bitten by edward putting the doll near their neck. haha. XD...

Notice: the entries below are part of frictional and silly imagination of bubblypokie.It does not related with any soul or living in the world.thank you.

PS PS PS

"Never believe what you see in the internet" - xiaxue

I'm really so into photoshop right now after I learned some tips on how to edit your pictures :P I can't deny that photoshop is just so magic..hahaha...it did grants me so self satisfaction weih..:D
I'm still very new with this thing and i'm sure im gonna love it :)

Below is the picture that I had experimented with ;)

BEFORE

AFTER

I know I still cant produce some 'flawless'(yea yea,obviously fake) product yet..but please bear with me upgrading and equipping myself with PS 7th edition.hahahahaha XD...

Ahh...*rolls eye*,I know :0..don't blame me,I'm free afterall (just finished my final)

cheers,
bubblypokie.

birthday celebration @ shabu shabu

after the celebration at station one, all my besties took the opportunity to put off a gathering dinner cum bubbly pokie's birthday celebration!! yayy!!

the celebration took place on 9th of october,2 days after my actual birthdate,well I don't care :)
the dinner was great as everyone able to turn up on that day despite everyone is busy with their studies and college,so my jie mei,thank you ^^ *dogeza XD

we went to bandar puteri's shabu shabu and it is an all-you-can-eat,buffet shabu-shabu and yup,i repeat all-you-can-eat!hehe! those who knows me well will think,buffet?all-you-can-eat?yeah,that's just sooo evelynn!hope you get what i mean :)

those who turned up - from left erene,ke xin,vanessa,cherrissa,pei jun(LOL) and pei jun's friend,chris lee :)


two sampats that had been stick together almost 9 years.erene,i think we should set a date for our friendship's day!!

everyone was so busy to attend my camera :O

posed with chopsticks?coincident or purposely?

I want to be inside the pic too! thanks chris!!

i want to be in the part of the picture,a peace will do :)

my turn my turn.see,i'm so excited :D

hahahaahha

they said i never focus my eye to the camera most of the time : i did..-_-

vanessa :)

bubblypokie,vanessa and erene :)

jasmine that joined us later !

wedding-pic-like *choiiii touch wood

i especially like this pic,credits to jasmine :D

they said my eyes swayed again :

jasmine and erene. remeber those time when three of us will talk and laugh loudly without any care of others?hahahahaha

thanks jasmine for the bracelet(?)

groupieee

bubblypokie with ke xin :)

with cherrissa. cherry struggled to show her face on the pic..hehe

no worries :) erghh..my eye -_-

candid XD

bubblypokie and jas

cakies from erene :) thanks,i love them <3

with momi :)

that's all for today :) thank you for dropping by ^^

p/s: i have the thought to change my nick,evelynn to edelweiss.pronounced as air-del-wise.any comment,pls pls?

simple birthday celebration

attention!

if anyone is awares(probably not) of my birthday on the month of October,so some friends of mine threw out a simple birthday celebration for those september and october's birthday babies :) as simple as it will be,so we went to station one cafe at sunway there to enjoy our great time ^^ the birthday babies are me,ying ying,samuel mk and zhun peng(err,not sure the spelling X_X paiseh) the lady behind the menu - ying ying

10 10 10 10 we are the october babies :)
4th(ying ying) 7th(me)



10 10 10 10 (okay i know,enough)

mk,zhun peng and ah yang :) the block games...

kelly and ying ying

my sis - suat erh :)

i think that was suat erh's hand(with lighter) and mk's hand,i remember the watch :P

the cake was from bread story

Happy birthday!

Make a wish!

Blow the candles!

thank you for those who bothered to celebrate my birthday :) may all the good wishes go the same with you too.

lovesss,

bubblypokie :)